Dating and money issues

Furthermore, your finances are merely a reflection of you. So, if your significant other is a financial mess, it’s almost guaranteed that other areas of his life are a mess, too.Perhaps the best way to proceed is with caution, bringing up money in a positive light and in a way that shows how it is important to you.I’m going to make the assumption that this isn’t a ploy on his part to go on “cheap dates”.🙂 There are tons of guys out there who have complexes about their jobs and the amount of money they make and what it “means” about them.Money is the number one problem in marriages and the number one cause of divorce.

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Could it be that getting on the same page about money is the key to marital bliss?And that poses an interesting question: does money matter when dating, especially early on?Or is it something to talk about later when things start to get serious?That may be taking it too far, but to say that money doesn’t matter at all is naïve. While it may be too far to write someone off who is bad with money, it may be a major red flag if you are with someone who is terrible with money.After all, if you are getting yourself on track financially, wouldn’t it be against your values to be with someone who is bad with money?Not everyone is present enough to see through it all, but the whole job/money and ego/identity crisis is a big illusion that men suffer from.


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