I’m mostly comfortable in my body, and it reflects in the way I portray myself. There’s a lot of grey area, and sometimes a very minimal space to put this information out there.
Does “curvy” accurately describe my physique, or should I choose something like “full figured”?
Something happened via email yesterday morning that made me sort of snap! Total unconditional love and everyone should be loved as well as I have been loved. Could we maybe meet first before you start telling me all about your junk. How about we shake hands once or twice before we start talking about “bumping uglies.” I could go on and on. But, like I said, 95% of my experiences have been great.
This was after a very rude string of back and forth emails with someone very hate filled that I turned down for a date.
Bed-Time Snoring This behavior as noticed in most people who are fat could be a huge turn off for guys.
Fat women like normal fat people have every tendency to get tired and exhausted over little things.
The men may find it disturbing to have women who fall asleep as soon as they hit the bed. The men may not be able to handle the women snoring and sweating every moment in bed.
My plus size blog Big Curvy Love was kicking along, I was working in podcasting, rocking fabulous fashion and for once in my life finally felt like a legit part of the deep end of the dating pool. I was exactly the same person; same personality, same looks, and same weight.Two people sit at a small table holding hands " data-medium-file="https://obviweretheladiesdotcom.files.wordpress.com/2016/05/feet-touching-couple-winter.jpg? However, no matter how comfortable I am, dating as a “big girl” will always be a special sort of challenge. When online, I have the best (and arguably the worst) luck on niche dating sites. “BBW” is not a term I’ve ever felt comfortable with.w=300" data-large-file="https://obviweretheladiesdotcom.files.wordpress.com/2016/05/feet-touching-couple-winter.jpg? I spend a lot of my mental currency on how I portray myself on dating sites. Literally, it means “big, beautiful woman.” I can get down with that definition, but it’s often used on dating and porn sites that fetishize fat women.It was a personal priority to make sure I included up-to-date full length photos so when I showed up in person my date actually got what they’d seen online. My authenticity wasn’t always reciprocated but I could sleep well at night back at Melrose Place.I also did things to bust this big booty out of my comfort zone.I even launched my own 50 Fat Dates project as a way of documenting my experience in the plus size dating world. The only thing that was different was the location. My apartment was two blocks from the Hollywood Walk of Fame and was like living in a real-life Melrose Place situation.